A few years ago, I was talking with my farther, just after my wife had given birth to our son. I was adjusting to life as a farther, and wanted some advice from him.
I was wondering: When do you feel like a "grown up". I had just been through this life changing event, and I wasn't feeling any different. In fact I was still feeling like a large child.
My farther smiled and said: So do I.
At the time he was almost 80 years old.